Showing posts with label mentors. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mentors. Show all posts

Thursday, March 12, 2015

What is a Millennial?

Everywhere I turn I see newspapers, magazines, and internet posts claiming to demystify the characteristics of the millennial generation. One of the most prominent features on the millennial population is Joel Stein's infamous Time magazine article, "Me Me Me Generation". He casts the millennial generation as lazy, self-centered and arrogant, in case you haven't read it. According to Miriam-Webster, a millennial qualifies as someone who will reach adulthood during the 2000s. Coming to adulthood in a time revolutionized by the global connectivity fostered by both the internet and technology, college students face a unique work environment. I call it unique because today's workplace requires savvy with technology, adaptability in ambiguous situations and intercultural competence. As Bob Dylan said, "times are a changing."

"Since when are millennials lazy?"
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What follows is my advice for millennials who are planning to enter the multigenerational workforce. Many of these tips derive from my experiences speaking with employees at my internships, through informational interviews, as well as internet research. A main source of my advice comes from millennial expert Dan Schawbel and his Forbes article in which he provides excellent advice for our generation. 

Look at your career as a collection of experiences
Dan Schawbel emphasizes the importance of looking at your career development as a life long journey of learning.  Experiences make up who we are, who we know, and how we see things. Therefore it is very important to appreciate that all your experiences, whether bad or good, serve as professional development. For all those pessimistic millennials out there, I'm talking to you! I know you feel that your jobs as babysitter, camp counselor, retail worker, lifeguard, waitress, and Starbucks barista seem trivial in the grand scheme of things. However, the experience gained from these jobs contribute to your learning about yourself and developing transferable skills that will apply to a variety of future opportunities. Remember people: skills are important! Skillfullness is the THING right now.  So if you've decided you never want to stare at an empty pool again, or if you're done customizing espresso beverages, it's fine.  Just make sure you understand the value in these experiences!

"Take Risks!"
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Reach for the Sky! Take Risks!
This tip may get tricky, but take risks! Yeah, I said it! Let me be clear - these risks should be calculated and somewhat planned for. I wouldn't say I'm a very spontaneous person, but millennials should understand the importance of taking risks early on in their careers. Post-college is probably the best time to take risks, for example by working for that small startup. Taking risks is important, and may test your ability to cope when things go wrong. Another reason to take risks early on in your career?  Don't be afraid of making mistakes, now is the time to make them!

Build "Real" Relationships
Again, referencing Joel Stein's article on the "Me Me Me Generation," he emphasizes the increased popularity and social acceptance of the use of the Instagram selfie, narcissistic complaints via Twitter, as well as the Me Me Me Generation's increased use of iPhones and Androids in order to connect with people. I agree that our generation practices an abundance of "screen time" through the use of our laptops, cell phones, and tablets (Can't forget those). The ease with which millennials use technology to communicate has created an "awkwardness barrier" when some have to meet with people in person. My advice, then, is don't just "connect" or "friend" someone online if you haven't had a meaningful conversation with them offline. It's important to build strong, functioning network connections, instead of connecting to kids from your high school who you never even spoke to. A large network is great, but you have to make sure all of your connections are meaningful and healthy!

"Get off your phones people!"
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Make your own website
We are living in an internet connected world.  How about swapping out that Word doc resume with a personal website! At first I thought this was slightly out of the box because HTML isn't really my forte, but it's actually a great idea, especially for students focusing on fields that prize creative and artistic skills. It's a great way to set you apart from other applicants and helps with your personal branding. This post by The Muse will help to get you started!


Travel! Travel! Travel!
Through several of the informational interviews I've conducted, and conversations I've had with professionals at New York Life, an experience that employers value is work abroad. Don't be afraid to venture out and work/volunteer in another country and learn another language. Not only does this provide you with a unique experience, but it illustrates to recruiters that you have intercultural experience. So if you have the chance to work abroad, don't hesitate! It's a great opportunity to forge networking connections across the globe, as well as give you a work experience that you will never forget!

Find a Mentor
Kelly wrote an earlier post about mentoring, and it's advantages. Mentors are great because they not only give you insight and advice into their jobs, but they also open up windows of opportunity through their network. If you are looking for a mentor don't be afraid to reach out to a Tufts alum through the Tufts Career Advisory Network.  A great mentor can help you hit the ground running after graduation and will continue to give you advice throughout your journey of creating a career path.

Therefore, a shout out to all my fellow millennials. No need to be pessimistic, even though others seem to be pessimistic about us. Let's be cool and prove them all wrong. It's time for us to enter the workforce and show off our next-generation skills!

Carpe Diem,
Nicole Brooks
Class of 2016

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Lean On Me - Mentors


Fact: everyone needs a support system. Even the most independent, self-sufficient people in the world wouldn't be able to get by without some help. This is especially true for young people, who often lack the experience and wisdom that might otherwise guide them.

The support of mentors has become increasingly valuable for me as I inch closer and closer to life in the so-called "real world". Who better to get advice from than experienced "real world" residents?

I'm just going to insert some fictional mentors throughout this post.

This year, I signed up to take part in a new mentoring program hosted by the Tufts Black Alumni Association. TBAA paired up Tufts students with alumni who volunteered to be mentors throughout the academic year. Mentors and mentees are expected to bond, communicate regularly, and work through various tasks.

In the past few months I've formed a great relationship with my mentor, Sade. She's a recent alum who works for the U.S. State Department. Her job focuses on Libya, but the instability in the region has required her to work remotely from Malta. Having a mentor who lives on a different continent is nontraditional for sure, but we've made it work through the magic of the internet. Luckily, I'm a night owl who has no problem with 1 am Skype sessions.

Feeney,  Feeney,  FEENEY!

BENEFITS OF HAVING A MENTOR:

  • A mentor in your field can answer specific questions. Though Sade isn't a lawyer, she majored in Political Science like I do, and she shares many of my interests. Since we have those similarities, I'm able to ask her more specific questions about career development and the political sphere. Finding a mentor in your field is a great goal to have.

  • They've probably gone through the struggles you're having now. It's hard to navigate both college and a future career. You will inevitably face challenges, but sometimes it feels like all the people around you are doing fine. A mentor can bring reality back into the situation - everyone has trouble at some point. Mentors can make you realize that you're not alone. They might even share lessons they've learned from their own struggles.

  • Networking potential. This wouldn't be a legitimate career blog if I didn't mention networking. Yes, it can be intimidating, but mentors are a fantastic way to make connections you wouldn't otherwise. Having a mentor in the professional world, especially if they're in your field of interest, is a priceless resource. They probably know people who would be willing to talk with you. Who knows, maybe you'll gain even more mentors! 

  • Encouragement and positive energy. Above anything, mentors want you to succeed! They're taking time out their day to form a relationship with you for a reason. They probably want to ensure that the next generation sees the same successes they've seen. On top of giving advice, a mentor can be the cheerleader who keeps you going. I'm definitely thankful for the mentors I've had who believed in me. That encouragement really does help.

Ms. Honey is probably the kindest mentor to ever exist.

Here's another testament to mentors. I was actually encouraged to sign up by another mentor of mine, Katrina Moore, the director of the Africana Center. She thought it'd be a great opportunity for me to connect with an alum in my field of interest, and she was definitely right. Sade and all the other mentors I've accumulated over time have been crucial to my development, career-wise and beyond. I'm very grateful to have mentors supporting me.


I'll end with my favorite fictional mentor ever: Uncle Iroh.

If you'd like the guidance a mentor can offer, go and reach out to someone. It could be a professor, a counselor, someone you meet at a networking event -- anyone who is willing to take you under their wing.

When it comes down to it, we all need somebody to lean on.

Signing off,

Kelly Vieira
Class of 2015